I've been on numerous date in my
life. More than I needed to actually, and I’ve come across all kinds of characters. Some clueless guys, some over aggressive guys, some boring guys, and definitely some excellent ones. So what makes a guy stick out to you after going on a lot of date? That’s what we’re here to discuss. Let’s start:
1. Be Prepared with a Plan
There aren’t too many things more impressive than a guy that is
prepared for a date. It shows you took some time out to think about how the date will do. You don’t have to have a minute to minute plan but a general plan of how the date will go. For example Dinner, Drinks, or a Lounge. Sounds like a decentThere aren’t too many things more impressive than a guy that is
enough plan…? It helps a lot.
2. Be Clean
When I say clean, I really mean clean. That means take shower, wear clean nice clothes, Deodorant, Brushed teeth :D, Hair
groomed and bla bla bla. You’d be surprised how being clean can get you up the ladder pretty quick. And if you’re picking her up in your car, make sure the car is also clean. No girl likes a guy that’s just looking tattered.
When I say clean, I really mean clean. That means take shower, wear clean nice clothes, Deodorant, Brushed teeth :D, Hair
groomed and bla bla bla. You’d be surprised how being clean can get you up the ladder pretty quick. And if you’re picking her up in your car, make sure the car is also clean. No girl likes a guy that’s just looking tattered.
3. Bring A Small Gift
You’re trying to impress her right? Bring a small gift. It doesn’t have to be anything too expensive. A box of chocolate, flowers, a bottle of wine and maybe Cards with very romantic lines :).
It will go a long way to get you some serious points. But make
sure it’s nothing too expensive. I mean don’t bring an iPhone 4s in the name of a gift. You might come off as too strong or focusing on showing off. Something thoughtful and small does the trick. I’m sure before the date you would’ve found out something she would like.
You’re trying to impress her right? Bring a small gift. It doesn’t have to be anything too expensive. A box of chocolate, flowers, a bottle of wine and maybe Cards with very romantic lines :).
It will go a long way to get you some serious points. But make
sure it’s nothing too expensive. I mean don’t bring an iPhone 4s in the name of a gift. You might come off as too strong or focusing on showing off. Something thoughtful and small does the trick. I’m sure before the date you would’ve found out something she would like.
4. Communicate Well
This is probably the most important part of the date after #2 of course. Be a good communicator and don’t be shy. That means ask questions, listen to her talk, look into her eyes and don’t colonize the conversation. Don’t talk too much about your achievements (as typical Nigerian men tend to do) or talk about yourself the whole time. Get to know her. It should be a dialog.
Don’t try to be too hard and a good sense of humor is welcomed
This is probably the most important part of the date after #2 of course. Be a good communicator and don’t be shy. That means ask questions, listen to her talk, look into her eyes and don’t colonize the conversation. Don’t talk too much about your achievements (as typical Nigerian men tend to do) or talk about yourself the whole time. Get to know her. It should be a dialog.
Don’t try to be too hard and a good sense of humor is welcomed
5. Pay For The Date
Unless you’re dutch, please pay the bill. If she offers, please decline. It’s not because you want to impress her with your money, or she can’t pay for herself. It’s just because it’s the right thing to do. Just fall in line and do as told because believe me, if
you don’t, the chances of you hearing back from her is slim to none. Even the big time extreme feminists will not like you for it.
Unless you’re dutch, please pay the bill. If she offers, please decline. It’s not because you want to impress her with your money, or she can’t pay for herself. It’s just because it’s the right thing to do. Just fall in line and do as told because believe me, if
you don’t, the chances of you hearing back from her is slim to none. Even the big time extreme feminists will not like you for it.
