What are some signs that the person you are dating is worth
investing in?
Dating nowadays has become all about chatting with someone
on the phone and then going for a couple of dates then hooking up. Not that
there is anything wrong with that method of dating. However if you are looking
for someone to invest in there are more than couple of qualities you need to
check out: Communication When people start dating at the beginning, they
communicate more because they are trying to know each other. But after some
time, they stop communicating and start talking to other people. If you meet
someone that constantly communicates issues and keeps the communication line
open, invest in this person because they are interested in knowing who you are.
These days there are more dream people who encourage others
(especially their partners) to go for more. If during your dating phase you
meet someone who supports you to grow and to be a better person every single
day, then it’s best to invest into growing with this person.
They challenge you;
- Apart from dream killers, there a lot of us who are
surrounded by or end up dating ‘yes men’. However, if you find someone that
challenges you from your opinions to the business ideas you propose, then you
might want to reconsider ditching the other potential dates for the one who
challenges you.
They are not clingy;
- Everyone needs personal space from time to time in order
to clear their mind or just to relax. If you meet someone that does not smother
you and respects your personal space then it might be time to get to know this
person even more. If you can be able to go to a party with this person and they
don’t need your help to spark conversation with strangers, then this person may
be a keeper.
If you can talk about your health;
- Health is a topic a lot of couples don’t discuss. However,
when you meet someone who is interested in your health by mentioning the
unhealthy foods you should cut out or even introducing you to low carbohydrate
diets, you have a gem worth investing in.
Your body is your temple and if you meet someone who values
the being of your body, then enjoy the journey of getting to know them better.
Mind S3x;- Very few have mastered the art of mind s3x. The
ability to stimulate one’s mind is something a lot of people don’t know how to
do nowadays because they simply discuss parties or people. You need a partner
that can discuss a lot of other things from books, documentaries or simply
introduce you to something new. You wouldn’t think twice inviting them
somewhere;- It can be difficult when you’re out at an event and trying to
network or catch up with people, but you can’t focus on the conversations
because you’re worried about your partner in the corner, or you’re constantly
trying to include them into chats. You should feel comfortable taking them with
you for events or parties. It shouldn’t feel like a chore.
